Have you ever caught yourself thinking about something you did years ago and instantly felt that familiar sting of guilt? You’ve apologised. You’ve changed. You’ve promised yourself you’ll never...
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The power of Negative motivation
Have you heard of negative motivation? Most people use positive motivation only. You want something and it creates a desire which makes you take action. Or, it’s supposed to… But…...
Lesson from The Pink Panther: Don’t Underestimate Small Beginnings
It’s been a few days since the Barbie vs Oppenheimer trend died down. But when the trend was going strong, you could see a lot of people wearing pink clothes. Ironically, all of this pink really...
Post Achievement Depression: When Success Feels Surprisingly Hollow
The Unexpected Side Effect of Success Picture this: You’ve been working tirelessly towards a major goal. It could be anything - a promotion at work, completing a marathon, finishing a...
The 6 Types of Courage – And How To Develop Them.
Ever encountered a spider in the bathroom and mustered up the guts to catch it and release it outside? Or perhaps you've stood up to that know-it-all colleague during a team meeting? Well,...
Why Don’t We Follow Our Dreams?
“The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never...
How To Set Healthy Boundaries: 10 Steps To Make People Respect You
"Boundaries are always set. If you don’t set your boundaries the way you want them, people will set them for you. And they will set them in a way that works for them, not for you." ~ Tomas Svitorka...
How to Be Mentally Strong: 12 Mistakes to Avoid That Will Help You Be More Mentally Resilient
How would you describe mental toughness, strength and resilience? Is it something that everyone has, or is it something that only certain people possess? (Note: In this article, I'll be using the...
How To (not) Stop Comparing Yourself: Why Comparison Is Good and How To Do It Right
Do you compare yourself to others? Do you compare yourself with their accomplishments, career, wealth, looks, luck, physique, etc? Do you end up feeling inadequate, underperforming,...
TOUGH LOVE: Does it make you or break you? Being hard on yourself vs self-abuse.
Is being hard on yourself a good way to push yourself, or does it do more damage than good? In this article, I’ll share my best thoughts on this topic, all based on my own experience as well...
Fear of Better Options (FOBO)? Here’s How to Finally Decide With Confidence
Do you take hours to make a decision because… well, what if is not the best option?! It may range from something simple like being unable to decide what to pick from a menu in a restaurant,...
8 Valuable Lessons I Learned From Running a 58km Ultramarathon
Running is a bit like Marmite. Some people love it, and some people hate it. I love Marmite, and I love running. Beyond the obvious health benefits, running is also a powerful tool...
How To Develop Unbreakable Self Discipline: 9 Essential Areas To Master
How much better could your life be with more self-discipline? What would you be able to accomplish? Self-discipline is absolutely essential for achieving meaningful and fulfilling things...
The All or Nothing Mindset: And why it never works
Lately, I’ve encountered a lot of people who had the ‘All or Nothing Mindset’ in the pursuit of their goals and ambitions. It was quite obvious that it wasn’t working for them and I want to share...
The Quitting Point – Where most people give up and why.
Let's be honest. Not every goal is achievable, at least not on the first try. Sometimes, we just bite too much to chew, and we have to throw in the towel (or spit it out if I were to run with...
How to bounce back from setbacks – The Sulking Deadline
Sometimes, when we have plans, goals, or ambitions, life decides to pull the rug underneath our feet. Setbacks are inevitable. Someone else gets the position you were working towards. Someone...
The Magic of Hard Work
I want to share something with you. I like it hard! But, but before your mind goes into "funny" places, let me clarify. I'm talking about the hardship of...
The Ultimate Self-Confidence Guide: 63 Practical Tips to Boost Your Confidence
Self-confidence is one of the most important skills one can acquire in life. And yes, I said skill, not a trait. Confidence is not something you 'have' but rather something you 'do'. Now, you may be...
The Danger Of: Fake It Till You Make It
Has anyone ever told you: "Ahh, just fake it till you make it"? It's terrible, terrible advice and research showed that it can, in fact, do a lot of damage. In this article, I will explain why...
Fear Flipping: Use Your Fears in Your Advantage
What are your fears you’d love to overcome? Public speaking?Making sales calls?Starting your own business? Fear is the most powerful drive for our actions, but also...
OK is NOT enough – Here’s Why
Over the years, people have asked me why OK is NOT enough. Ever wondered about it?Let me ask you this. If you went on a holiday and it was just OK, would you go back again?If you watched a...
How to get unstuck from negative emotions – emotional home principle.
How do you feel on everyday basis? Do you like it? Is there something you’d like to change about it? Maybe you’d like to feel happier more often? I’m sure you know some people who are always...
How to Master Small Talk And Never Run Out Of Things To Say
Have you ever wondered how some people just walk into a social situation and start chatting to anyone about anything, keeping the conversation running without awkward silences and boring topics like...
Not Feeling Valued? Here are tips On What To Do When Yout Don’t Feel Valued
Do you feel like you’re not valued or appreciated enough by your boss, colleagues, friends or even family? Do you feel like people are just not taking you seriously or taking you for granted? First...
The Uncomfortable Truth About The Fear of Success
A big part of my work as a coach is helping my clients overcome all sorts of obstacles, fears, and limiting beliefs that are holding them back from achieving their goals. There is one kind of fear...
My First London Marathon – Experience & Lessons
On April the 28th 2019, I’ve run my first marathon (suggesting it most likely wasn’t my last one) and it was a pretty incredible experience, and I want to share it with you....
How to Stop Worrying About What People Think of You.
Do you have dreams,goals and ambitions that you hold back with because of the fear of what others might think if you did pursue them? Are you struggling to be authentic, speak your mind, act or even...
Being a Good Person vs. Being Nice: Why It Matters More Than You Think
Do you ever say to you self something like this? “I’m such a good person, but people keep screwing me over.”“I’m so good to everyone, but people always take advantage of me.”“I just want to get...




























